Back then my youth time, i was an angry person. Anger for small things. I used to get frustrated and depress and i just didn't like my life, i hate it so much and slowly the anger grew from there after my last break-up, i used to be very lonely and depress. I don't like talking to anyone and i didn't like anyone to talk to me. I don't know why and i don't understand why such things are happening to me. From such loneliness i got angry always.
So one day my mum brought to a Prayer House, it's a very nice big house, big space to plant so much of plantations and fruits and i was amazed to see the house. As i enter in i can feel something so peace and so warm inside and a sister came to me and prayed for me. I felt something empty like a heavy load was taken away and i felt to relief. I continue to speak on tongue and seek the lord for help.
I would like to share, it's not that we human are perfect. I do still have anger, but not so intense or wild, i will be angry if something goes wrong or someone did something. In a relationship, if your bf / gf lied to you, you get angry and you scold him / her. The bible tells us " Be angry and do not sin" Ephesian 4:26. I believe not everyone is angryhas automatically done wrong. Some anger is justified. But note that every case is involves being angry at sin. Sin ought to anger Christians, but we must control our response.
Some psychologist encourage people to "vent" their anger, If husband and wives become angry, they are supposed to say whatever they think, because "it get it out of the system" or "release tension". The tell us to allow even little children to throw tantrums,. scream and call parents nasty names.
In Proverbs 29:11, 20. A fool vents all his felings, but a wise man hold them back. Do you see a man hasty in his words? There is more hope for a fool than for him.
The problem with anger is that it may lead us to lose control of our conduct and lash out others with foolish words or deeds that are intended to hurt others and may regretted later, By contrast, a wise man will control himself. even when he is angry.
The Bible teaches is that our words and deeds are controlled by our thoughts. we must learn to control our thoughts and emotions, because harboring sinful thoughts will lead us to sinful nature. Proverbs 4: 23 and Matt 15:18 - I got emotional problem.. trying to get rid of.. :P
I have learnt a lot about anger. In Ephesians 4:31,32, Not all anger is sinful, Verse 26, but we should put away anger that is associated with bitterness, clamor, evil speaking, and malice. It is the opposite of kindness, tenderness and forgiveness. Verse 32.
Anger is sinful when it lead us to lose control so that, instead of being helpful to others, we become abusove, saying evil words and hateful things intended to hurt them.2 Corinthians 12:20
I have stop mingling with such people cause they can lead you to corruption to turn you in Evil ways, if you weak you will turn to bad things but if your strong in heart and mind and soul the Holy Spirit it self will shut your door to such people like them. My door has shut, now am peaceful, happy and now praying and seeking God will lead me to the right man that will teach me and Love me like how Jesus Love me.
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